Why does he just it Real?

Ramon weatherall sr (00:01.666)

This is the Raising Carter Podcast and I am your host, Ramon Weatherall Sr. And the Raising Carter Podcast is a podcast that's dedicated strictly and specifically for fathers with sons. Fathers with sons who wanna be more of an integral part of their lives. I know I just used the school word, integral.

that wanna be more of an important part of their lives. They wanna stay that way. And it's for young men who want to be men. And some people might say, what does that mean? What does that wanna be mean? If you gotta ask what does that mean, this isn't the podcast for you.

Ramon weatherall sr (00:54.978)

bounce, but my question to you dads, sons, young men.

Ramon weatherall sr (01:09.357)

What?

Do you tell yourselves, or what do you tell your sons about lying?

because not this year so much, this is a new year, new school year, but last year, me, my wife, were having a real issue with Carter and Lying

He would get in tough.

situations and incidents at school, I almost said at work, at school, and we'll get a call from the principal, this situation, that situation, and he would lie to try to keep, get himself out of trouble. But what I told him was, lot of stuff you getting in trouble for, or getting...

Ramon weatherall sr (02:12.482)

talk to at school really wouldn't get you in trouble at home. But what's getting you at trouble at home is, is that you're lying to grownups. You're lying about what you're doing and you're making things worse. And the reason I bring that up is because this whole Dwight Howard situation.

Is he not doing the same thing my seven year old son is doing, was doing? Or six year old son last year is doing? You done got, you running around, you gonna got yourself in some shit.

Ramon weatherall sr (02:59.734)

I'ma leave that alone. And you.

Ramon weatherall sr (03:10.322)

lying, you just lying, man. You, now, but when them laws get on you, when you get in that courtroom, now, yeah. At first you didn't know this person. They was lying, you don't do this stuff like that. But now.

Ramon weatherall sr (03:28.822)

You get in front of that judge and your lawyer told you, don't get up your line now.

Ramon weatherall sr (03:37.366)

Now you say, oh, it was a consensual thing. We both want to do it. Why you used to say that in the first place? You just made things worse because come on, man, nobody thought you were straight. Nobody thought you were straight, Dwight. No, no, nobody thought you were straight. No, no women, no men, nobody did. Okay? Nobody.

Ramon weatherall sr (04:08.454)

Anybody with any type of, that wasn't in denial, did not think you were straight. You weren't fooling anybody.

Ramon weatherall sr (04:22.444)

but...

these videos and you know how you doing this campaign going around talking.

Ramon weatherall sr (04:32.746)

But we know why you do it. First, you just trying to hold on. Because in Orlando, weren't you like this religious guy? You know, all into, you know, you was all religious. You know.

Christian and Bible study and all you was all this and all that

then all of a sudden you done did, you know.

Ramon weatherall sr (05:01.014)

got, you know, dig, got a little, you know, a little sweet. You started doing stuff with your hair and all this stuff. But you, to me, you always was doing too much. You always, you always was going overboard. Like how you got all muscular. Like you're a basketball player. Why are you looking, like basketball players don't be that muscular, like. But.

You're not helping yourself doing these interviews and these replies like this one right here.

Ramon weatherall sr (07:10.226)

No, Dwight, nobody wants you to text them. No, nobody wants you to text them. People just want you to stop lying, bruh.

Ramon weatherall sr (07:23.446)

That's what people want. Stop lying. And people need to stop saying, it don't matter what you do in your house. It don't matter what you do in your bed. Yeah, it do matter. It do matter. Cause if it didn't matter, you wouldn't make these videos.

It do matter what you do in your house. It do matter what you do in your bed. You know why it matter? Cause that's why your ass in court right now, Negro. That's why you got your ass up in court right now cause it matter.

Ramon weatherall sr (08:04.962)

That's why you going around instead of somewhere playing basketball, you in court and you going around being on different podcasts trying to, I don't know what you trying to do, save face. It matter.

We need to stop telling men and boys that thinking that you can change the world, that you can just live your life the way you wanna live your life. I don't give a shit how much money you got. I don't care what you do.

Ramon weatherall sr (08:40.906)

What you do matters. Now, and if you not gonna stay 10 toes down for it, if you're bisexual, if you're gay, then stand on it. Then it don't matter. Then it don't matter to you. Stand on it.

Ramon weatherall sr (09:03.607)

But.

You not fooling nobody, man. You just mad, cause I don't, ain't nobody, don't know, don't know, man, don't know, no, no dudes want you texting them, bruh. Not no straight dudes. What we want you to do is stop lying.

Ramon weatherall sr (09:24.066)

Cause you just making a fool out yourself. Cause I knew you, I knew you was, I knew you was gay. I knew you was gay.

Ramon weatherall sr (09:39.519)

win.

Ramon weatherall sr (09:46.294)

I knew you was gay when I seen this video and this was years ago.

Ramon weatherall sr (10:00.418)

Right here.

Ramon weatherall sr (10:08.565)

Watch it again.

Ramon weatherall sr (10:18.543)

Where in the hell?

Ramon weatherall sr (10:24.454)

and what in the hell is you doing, bruh? I knew you was getting right there. And for the audio, for the audio, for the audio, for people who couldn't see the video, and I'm gonna explain it to you. He walk, he was doing an interview. He's dressed in plain clothes. He's suited and bootied, he's dressed in plain clothes. He gets done with the interview. Okay, you know, but goodbye. And he walks to the sideline.

He walks to the bench, sits down, and man, I forget dude's name, man.

Ramon weatherall sr (11:05.107)

That was like his rookie. That was like his, that was like his rookie, like the guy he was like mentoring, young point guard. I forget his name, man. But he sits down and in the midst of sitting down, the guy kind of got his legs open. He like thrust his hands in between his legs.

puts his hands in between this man's legs. Like, oh, let me, you know, let me see what's going on down there. Let me, what?

Ramon weatherall sr (11:42.214)

Where do they play like that, bro? This is the NBA, this is pro basketball. Man, if I went out in high school, middle school, you don't play with me like that. I knew you was gay right then, bro. I knew you was gay right then.

Ramon weatherall sr (12:04.116)

No question.

Ramon weatherall sr (12:07.838)

No, no, no question. You can't say, who else does that? Who else does that? I never seen Shaq do nothing like that. I never seen Kevin Garnett do nothing like that. Kevin Durant, LeBron James, Michael Jordan, who does that? You.

Ramon weatherall sr (12:32.082)

Sweep the white, that's who does it. And that's cool, man. But stop acting like you not. Stop lying like my son was. Trying to, just trying to lie, just trying to get out of the situation right there. I don't wanna get in trouble right now. So I'ma keep lying when everybody knows you lying.

You a grown man, everybody knows you lying. Everybody knows you not telling the truth. Oh, who ain't nobody else's business but my, if what I'm doing in my, it's my business what I do on my bed. Yeah, it is. So say what you doing, stand on it. You ain't gotta get all intricate, yeah, but you know, hey, you know, I like men, I like women, whoopty doo, you know?

But my question is, is this him being gay, how does him playing overseas? How does Taiwan, how does that culture see that type of activity? Are you gonna be able to play over there? Are they gonna accept you the same over there? Just because over here in America, it might be somewhat accepted.

Do they accept it? Are you gonna be a fan favorite over there?

Ramon weatherall sr (14:04.746)

We need to stop thinking that everything is accepted everywhere and things are changing. Everything isn't accepted everywhere.

Ramon weatherall sr (14:17.472)

and.

Ramon weatherall sr (14:21.314)

Being a man is about taking responsibility for your own actions.

Ramon weatherall sr (14:28.338)

Not when you're, not just when you're forced to. He was forced to, he was forced to say, this thing he had texting his dude and all that was consensual. He was forced to say it, cause if he didn't have to, he wouldn't have.

Ramon weatherall sr (14:48.738)

So you not fooling no man. You not fooling this 50 year old man that you not gay. You are gay. And that's cool, bruh. But what's not cool, as you acting like everybody else is stupid.

Ramon weatherall sr (15:06.13)

and acting like you not and just keep going on with this charades and just embarrassing yourself. So dads, what are you telling your sons about lying? Because I tell my sons.

Ramon weatherall sr (15:23.594)

Lying is gonna get you in more trouble than just saying, hey, I messed up there. We were playing around, we were joking around, fighting in the bathroom, doing stuff boys do. I got caught, whatever, we was calling each other names or, hey, I got into a fight at school, whatever. Whatever we were doing. But lying about it.

Ramon weatherall sr (15:56.112)

isn't gonna help your case any, so.

Ramon weatherall sr (16:01.838)

Tell your sons to keep it real, keep it 1000. Tell you the truth. Tell me the truth. I can't help you if you're lying. I can't help you. I don't even wanna help you if you're lying. I don't. I don't even wanna help you if you're lying. So that is this episode of the Raise the Carter podcast. I am your host, Ramon Weatherall, senior. My son Carter will be.

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