joe smith Wife starts a only fan page without him knowing about it. Would this be an issue for you or is it all good in your opinion
Ramon weatherall sr (00:00.078)
Carter podcast and I am your host, Ramon Weatherall Sr. And the Raising Carter podcast is a podcast that's dedicated strictly for fathers with sons. Fathers with sons who wanna be more of an integral and just a important part of their lives. They wanna be that way, they wanna stay that way. And they wanna hear somebody talk about the things that concerns them.
that concerns them, issues that they might not be thinking of. Well, I'm your guy. And...
Ramon weatherall sr (00:42.242)
This episode, I wanna ask you, how do you handle relationships?
How do you handle relationships? How do you operate relationships? Because what you do, as we always say.
It's not what you do, it's not what you say, it's what you do. So how you handle yourself in these romantic relationships with a woman, that's all I'm talking about.
Ramon weatherall sr (01:20.83)
your son sees it and is going to emulate it. Sorry, he's going to emulate it. And one thing that's true that a woman knows is that I wanna play this clip right here. It's true, and a woman knows this.
Ramon weatherall sr (02:34.006)
Yes, sir. Yes, we are.
Ramon weatherall sr (02:41.406)
A good woman makes you feel more like a man. Yes, she does.
She knows how to do it and she does it.
Ramon weatherall sr (02:58.071)
and respect it.
And I bring that up today because there's a video of.
brother Joe Smith and his wife. I believe this is his wife. They said that they've been married since 2018. So it's his wife. First I thought it was his girlfriend. People were saying it was his girlfriend, but this is his wife. It makes it even worse. So I'm gonna play this clip, listen to it, watch it. And then we gonna.
Talk about it.
Ramon weatherall sr (03:53.826)
That's not the right one.
You gonna get to that?
Ramon weatherall sr (05:31.01)
She's been doing what she has to do.
Ramon weatherall sr (05:38.446)
Brother Joe Smith, this is my issue with you. You knew that she was doing this kind of stuff before. So when things go bad, what you think she gonna resort to? What she know? She just resorted back to what she know. So what you mad? You mad at her because she didn't tell you about it? She didn't tell you about it because you couldn't handle it. Does it make it right? No, it don't make it right. But you...
made the wrong choice, you chose the wrong kind of woman. If you didn't want a woman to go on, to make an OnlyFans page, you shouldn't have picked a woman that had the capability and the likelihood that she would. You can't get mad at her for being who she is.
You can't get mad at her for her being who she is. Only the person you can get mad at, bruh, is you, because that's who you picked. That's who you picked. A woman who would, when things got tough, she would start an OnlyFans page.
Ramon weatherall sr (06:52.842)
Was she wrong for not telling you? Yeah, but by the looks of it, she probably felt you couldn't, you weren't gonna be able to handle it anyway. Was it janky? Was it shysty? Was it shady? It's all that. But once again, that's the kind of woman you picked. So, fathers, fellas.
Ramon weatherall sr (07:17.287)
You gotta watch.
Ramon weatherall sr (07:21.879)
You gotta watch how these relationships in these women that you picking, because your son's gonna imitate and emulate the relationships you in, the women that you picking.
Ramon weatherall sr (07:37.462)
This is your wife and she got an OnlyFans page and you don't know nothing about it?
Ramon weatherall sr (07:46.882)
That ain't cool.
Ramon weatherall sr (07:52.938)
That is not cool because...
Could you do something like, I mean, could you do something like that?
Ramon weatherall sr (08:03.946)
Like, you know what I mean? If women wanted to pay him to go out on dates with him.
Ramon weatherall sr (08:13.058)
They ain't doing nothing. They just going out on dates. They not doing nothing. She's just a lonely woman who wants to go out on, you know, a date with a, you know, a tall dark guy, ex pro player, would you be fine with that? I don't know, this woman, she might be. She saying it sound like she used to be in the game. So she might be, but.
Ramon weatherall sr (08:41.058)
People do things and they think.
Because...
Ramon weatherall sr (08:51.458)
They're not going all the way, it's all right.
Ramon weatherall sr (08:58.394)
It's not all right, but sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do, but in saying that, you gonna risk relationships. He don't trust her no more, and I don't blame him.
but maybe she got a lot of bills, things like that.
Ramon weatherall sr (09:21.858)
that need to be handled, he ain't helping with that. So like she said, she gotta do what she gotta do. But if y'all married.
Ramon weatherall sr (09:32.002)
There ain't no excuse for you having the OnlyFans page and not telling your husband. You wrong for that, but.
Ramon weatherall sr (09:43.491)
This, that's who she is, that's in her makeup. And he said to himself, oh yeah, before, you know, I knew you was doing that stuff before we met. Well, if she was doing that stuff before you met, that's who she is, bruh. At that point, you should have decided, this woman, you know, I can have some fun with, but I'm not gonna marry her.
Ramon weatherall sr (10:14.338)
Sorry.
You can't turn a hoe into a housewife, Joe.
Ramon weatherall sr (10:26.326)
It's just the way it is.
Ramon weatherall sr (10:40.766)
It's too many men running around here, caping, caking, and warning these women that.
Ramon weatherall sr (10:50.986)
you know, that are loose, that are fast, that are out here.
Ramon weatherall sr (11:01.314)
doing what they wanna do, and then you try to save them. Aw, man.
She like.
Ramon weatherall sr (11:14.786)
fucking other dudes, bro. I don't know how to say it any better than that. You know what I mean? Like she likes smashing other dudes. She likes smashing different dudes. And now you trying to make her a girlfriend? Like this dude, don't be like this dude in this clip. I know Slim Thug put it on his TikTok page and it was, it's a joke to him, you know, because he was, there's, you know, but there's some dudes really out here like this, bro.
Ramon weatherall sr (12:32.046)
Look at this.
Ramon weatherall sr (12:37.614)
Come on, man, like for real, for real. He's really going through it. He's really going, you calling her all these names. She was him. Like, what did you think? What did you think? Don't be this guy. What did you think? This is why fathers are so important. What did you think she was when you met her? No one told you, no one told you that, you know, she likes.
Ramon weatherall sr (13:09.846)
Dicks. She like fucking dudes. She like smashing dudes just like, you know what I mean? You trying to save her? Are you screaming and crying?
Ramon weatherall sr (13:23.414)
This is, don't be this guy. Fathers, help your sons to not be this guy. And fathers, don't be this guy around your son because he might end up this way.
Ramon weatherall sr (13:45.334)
You know, what they call them, a tender dick. Don't be that, man. Don't fall in love with fast women, sluts, and thinking you gonna change them. Thinking you gonna change them. Oh, she's different. You know, she just needed somebody to be good to her. Man, get your stupid ass somewhere and sit down.
You can't, you can't.
Ramon weatherall sr (14:18.806)
You're not changing that. You're not changing her. You're not changing somebody.
You're not changing a man. You're not changing a woman. You're not changing them. It's not your damn job. You pick somebody that's gonna give you the best life. You pick somebody that's good, and has got they shit together when you meet them.
trying to change somebody.
So you be in the car screaming and hollering and crying like this dude. If you don't wanna be like that, you don't want your son to be like that.
Ramon weatherall sr (14:57.966)
Pick wisely.
She might not be the most sexiest and the most attractive one. Those, okay, you have a little fun with, but the one that you selling down and you calling your woman, you calling your wife, she gotta have some respect for you, for you and for herself. And that is this episode of the Raising Carter Podcast.
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Ramon weatherall sr (16:09.29)
I made, I'm doing this podcast for you. I'm doing this podcast for you, but I'm also doing it for me because nobody's really talking like this. And I was looking for somebody who was talking like this. I said, man, I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna be what I need. And I hope that's what you need too. And I also wanna give a shout out before we go to our sponsors. I will never quit. I got the, I will, I got the never quit Army.
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Ramon weatherall sr (17:04.89)
And that is this episode of the Raising Carter Podcast and I am outta here. Peace. Peace, peace. That's how you do it, peace.